Growing Up Bandstra

Kalamazoo Trip

2012-02-11T10:05:00.007-04:00

We spent the last week in Kalamazoo with the family and enjoyed some relaxation. I had the "pleasure" of playing in an alumni water polo match on Saturday. It was nice having Grandma, Pop-Pops, and the rest of the family in attendance to cheer me on. We won one game and tied the other and, most importantly, I didn't drown so I would call that a success! In other sporting news, we had a great time watching the Super Bowl with the extended family.

During our trip, Isla went to her first real movie (at least that she was awake for). Grandma and I took her to see "Beauty and The Beast". She loved it. She also loved the popcorn. Her face was glistening by the end of the film.

My cheering section

Taking a break from the Super Bowl and reading with Uncle Pintoo and Auntie Tonya

Calvin playing with Grandma

Calvin relaxing with Pop-Pops

Isla and Calvin spending some time with The Hoffman's

Poo Amendment

2012-02-09T13:34:00.004-04:00

Just when you feel really great about your child's toileting (and when you make a public statement to that effect), they switch it up on you. After a good couple of weeks of #2 landing in the correct spot, Isla has decided to take a poo hiatus from the potty. While she has mostly been able to wait until she is in her diaper at naptime or bedtime, this is not always the case. Thus, the potty saga continues...

Two Months-Old!

2012-02-09T13:24:00.004-04:00

Calvin had his two month well-child visit last week. He was overall a pretty good sport, despite loudly protesting the 3 (!) immunizations he received. Just to make his opinion known, however, he peed on his very kind pediatrician. Here are the all-important stats: 13 lbs, 8 ounces (85th percentile) and 25 inches (greater than 97th percentile). He continues to be a modest feeder and a champion sleeper. In the past week, he has transitioned to a 7:00 PM - 8:00 AM sleep/wake schedule with only a single feeding. Isla continues to have him beat on naps though. She prefers a 2-3 hour nap in the afternoon and Calvin prefers three 30-minute naps throughout the day.

Our "long and lean" baby

The Trials and Tribulations of Toileting

2012-01-31T13:21:00.010-04:00

After a completely disastrous attempt at toilet-training Isla back in October (picture Isla slipping on her own urine, landing hard on our kitchen floor, and crying hysterically), we took a break. We decided to give it another shot about 3 weeks ago with much better success. While we still have less-than-desirable results at times (she actually had to apologize to Jake for peeing on his hands yesterday), Isla is almost completely independent now. She is very proud of her accomplishment, as is her whole immediate and extended family. Even Calvin has gotten into the spirit, dressing up like a little poo to support his big sister (see below).

Isla on the frog potty

Our lil' stinker

Nicknames

2012-01-27T20:57:00.002-04:00

Our family members go by many names. While Jake and I are most frequently called "Mommy" and "Daddy" (by Isla) or grunts/cries (from Calvin), the kids have more unusual names. Isla is typically either "Missy Moo" or "Minners". And poor Calvin must think his name is "Budders" since that is what we tend to be calling him these days. We'd love to have great stories behind these nicknames, but they just emerged during both kids' newborn days. Hopefully they won't hate us for this when they're teens...

Isla and Calvin's newest labels

All Clear

2012-01-18T11:28:00.005-04:00

As part of the ongoing monitoring associated with Beckwith-Wiedemann Syndrome, Isla continues to undergo blood draws and abdominal ultrasounds every 3 months. Over the last 3 weeks, however, she has also completed several doctor's appointments evaluating her for potential problems associated with the syndrome. Since the beginning of January, Isla has had a blood draw, an abdominal ultrasound, an echocardiogram, a hearing test, and a speech-language evaluation. Just for kicks, she also visited her pediatrician for an asthma follow-up and accompanied her brother to his first well-child visit. We are happy to report that all tests/evaluations came back normal and she is as healthy as can be. We are grateful for her good health and development! For her part, Isla is happy to be done with doctor's visits (at least for a few weeks) and is proud to show off her growing sticker collection (a routine part of each appointment).

Our "normal" little girl practicing her headphone-wearing for the hearing test

6 weeks-old!

2012-01-17T17:32:00.006-04:00

Calvin turns 6 weeks-old tomorrow and we can hardly believe how the time has flown by. He had to see our pediatrician yesterday because of some belly button goop. He ended up needing a relatively quick procedure done to help close off his belly button for good. He is currently a whopping 12 pounds, 5 ounces and is starting to be less blob and more baby each day. We're getting some really cute cooing and other such sounds a lot more now and he seems so much more engaged and interactive than just a week ago.

Isla continues to be a fantastic big sister. She is quick to alert us when "Baby brother is crying" and equally quick to assure us "Oh, he's fine" when he is not easily soothed. She is very helpful in locating and bringing pacifiers, burp rags, and diapers and tries to comfort Calvin when he is fussy. It is really fun to see her play the role of the older, more mature child. She, after all, was our baby for so long!

Calvin is looking a bit chubbier these days

dinosaur pose and accompanying shirt

Calvin's version of "milk drunk" (we posted a similar shot of Isla at around this age)

Isla made me look all pretty the other night (note the big girl panties!)

Isla actually succeeded in rocking Calvin to sleep for us one evening

Visit from Grandma

2012-01-10T16:45:00.008-04:00

Grandma Susan was here for a week visiting from the Northwest. We had a fabulous time together. Isla really soaked up all of the extra attention (Grandma was a full-time playmate) and Calvin liked having another shoulder to rest on. Isla and Calvin's parents appreciated all of the extra help too. Almost everyone (including little Calvin) had a bit of a cold, so we kept things pretty low-key and tried are best to just relax.
Calvin successfully finding his thumb for the first (witnessed) time. Bring on the orthodontist bills.

Calvin and Grandma resting their eyes

Calvin's first real bath. He was very relaxed and content during it.

Jake celebrated his 31st birthday with (no surprise) oatmeal cake

Michigan State had a big football win (a very special birthday surprise for Daddy and a surprise to most fans!)

Isla was always calmed by our bathroom fan on Queen Street. Our current bathroom has no fan (!), so we have had to improvise. We've discovered that the little man needs a bit of "lamp time" several times daily (i.e., an opportunity to stare longingly at this particular lamp).

Reading time with Grandma

Happy Grandkids = Happy Grandma

Frosty the Snowman

2012-01-04T13:04:00.005-04:00

Frosty the snowman was a jolly happy soul, with a licorice smile and a carrot nose and two eyes made out of brussel sprouts...

"Frosty"

Isla hard at work

Isla is adamant that every person/animal/thing is either a "Mommy", a "Daddy", or an "Owner" (in the case of animal owners) and that a baby is needed for the picture to be complete. Thus, this daddy snowman needed a snowman baby.

Rosy cheeks post-snowman making

Christmas with Grandma and Pop-Pops

Christmas Morning

2011-12-31T14:07:00.002-04:00

Uncle Paul, Auntie Anne, and Cousin Cohen hosted Christmas morning this year and it was lovely. Jake made Cinnamon Rolls (one of our Christmas traditions) and we spent the day opening presents, playing games, drinking mimosas, and entertaining/comforting crying babies/children.

Isla played Santa again this year, but only for the first 2 rounds of gifts. After that, she was far too distracted by her own gifts.

Tired dads

Isla's favorite gift was the costume from one of her most-watched shows, "Super Why". Here she is as Princess Presto proclaiming: "Princess Presto... to the rescue!".

Christmas with the cousins. If you can believe it, this was the "best" shot.

Calvin in his Christmas outfit - thanks Keri and Tom!

Christmas in Kalamazoo

2011-12-31T13:42:00.003-04:00

We decided to go on an adventure when Calvin turned 12 days-old and head to Kalamazoo for the holidays. Despite the lack of winter weather, we enjoyed a wonderful week at home with family. Calvin adjusted to his new environment and Isla lapped up the extra attention from grandparents, aunts, uncles, and friends.

Enjoying the Christmas Tree with Pop-Pops

Making Christmas cookies with Daddy. Isla had to be reminded several times during the decoration phase that "Just because you decorated it, doesn't mean you eat it".

Isla was super thrilled to have her own "wine glass" at Christmas Eve dinner. She was attempting to toast about once every 2-3 seconds. She also encouraged everyone at the table to dance several times ("You can do it!").

Leaving cookies and milk for Santa. Jake and I had to be instructed by Grandma and Pop-Pops to drink the milk, leave some crumbs, and write a thank-you note from Santa. We're new at this...

Calvin and Daddy resting their eyes for a few moments

Visit with Santa

2011-12-30T17:35:00.004-04:00

We took Isla (and Calvin, naturally) to visit with Santa before Christmas. While she was initially excited at the prospect of meeting the guy in red, she was a bit hesitant when she was actually in his presence. She declined the opportunity to sit on his lap and instead settled for a high-five. When Santa asked what Isla wanted for Christmas, she exclaimed "A present!". When he asked how many, she said "One". Upon further prompting, she asked for crayons. Way to aim big, Isla.

This is the closet Isla got to Santa. Calvin didn't seem to care at all.

Isla enjoying some Starbucks after the big event.

Haircut: Part Two

2011-12-24T16:49:00.004-04:00

Isla received her first grandma haircut over Thanksgiving. For a number of reasons, this resulted in a style that was part Amish-boy, part that guy from the movie "Dumb and Dumber". Ultimately, not very becoming. To remedy this, Jake took her to a kids salon where she had a fantastic time being pampered. The stylist even managed to blow-dry her hair (round brush included) and make a little braid. Grandma accepted the bill.

Isla chose a blue car to sit in and seemed to enjoy the whole experience.

This is what one would call "driving in style".

The final product.

Rocking a big-girl braid.

December 15th

2011-12-24T16:44:00.004-04:00

We felt it must be acknowledged that December 15th was (at the time) a big day for our family. In the middle of her bath, Isla stood up and hurriedly asked for a diaper. When I asked her if she needed to poo, she restated her need for a diaper. I asked if she would like to try to use the potty and she agreed to try (something she has been adamantly against this fall). I plopped Calvin into his chair (Jake was at work) and rushed to get the potty. While running back to see if Calvin was ok, Isla completed her business in the potty. We were both very excited and called both Grandma Susan and Pop-Pops with the good news. Nothing has happened potty-wise since this time. So, now December 15th is just the date we received confirmation that Isla's body was ready for toilet-training. Now, we just need to convince her toddler mind...

Outtakes

2011-12-15T16:15:00.005-04:00

We attempted to shoot some family pictures yesterday for our yearly holiday card. These were some of the shots that didn't quite make the cut:

Like many toddlers, Isla struggles to give a natural smile in front of the camera. Jake has tried to remedy this by asking her to "Show her teeth". This is typically the resulting image we are able to capture.

Isla was enjoying holding Calvin until he started to fuss...

This shot was taken moments before Calvin got shoved off the ottoman.
You can clearly see the terror in Isla's eyes.

Week One

2011-12-15T15:57:00.004-04:00

We have all survived Calvin's first week of life. Whether it's his laid-back style or the fact that it's our second time as parents to a newborn, things just seem easier this time around. So far, he's shaping up to be the excellent feeder and pooper that his sister was and sleep, well, it's not so bad. Isla is embracing her new role as Big Sister. She enjoys smothering Calvin with kisses and hugs and is keen to hold him (as long as he is not crying/fussing). When we first asked Isla what her brother's name was, she offered "curtain" followed by "cantaloupe tea", but has since figured it out.

Calvin's coming home attire.

We tried to please his sister from the get-go with a Cat in The Hat outfit.

Happily awake (something we don't remember from Isla's first few days).

The kids "hanging out".

Just kickin' it.

Awwwwww: baby's first blow-out.

The Story of Calvin Myer

2011-12-10T11:12:00.006-04:00

Nancy was awoken in the early morning of Wednesday, December 7th to the feeling that Baby Boy Bandstra was on his way. Jake and Isla awoke shortly thereafter and started getting the last few things into their respective bags. Grandparents and our Doula, Peggy, were called and told the good news. Nancy and Peggy worked on the baby while Jake got Isla ready and shipped her off with friends until Grandma and Pop-pops could arrive.

Things started to progress quickly and we were headed to the car to make the trip to the hospital. After a 30-minute drive (and some rather aggressive driving techniques), we arrived at the hospital around 10:00 AM. Like a scene out of a movie, Jake ran to get a wheelchair, grabbed all the bags from the back while throwing the keys to a valet, and raced down the longest corridor EVER. Once we arrived at the birthing unit, it was clear to the staff that there was no time for a formal "registration". Within minutes, we were in a room and our doctor (who was in the OR) was being paged. The staff told Nancy to wait to push until our doctor could arrive, but things had progressed too far and that baby was coming out. Once another set of professional hands was located to catch (Thanks Dr. Borzear!), Nancy was finally given the green light to push. About a minute and 1-2 pushes later, Baby Boy Bandstra was born. The time was 10:21 AM. This traumatic experience was shared by everyone except for Baby Boy, who came out unscathed (but not exactly happy). After passing all of his tests and two days in the hospital, Mom, Dad, Isla, and Calvin have been reunited at home and are doing well.

B-Day: a final belly shot at 8:25 AM between contractions

A very fresh and BIG Baby Boy (9 lbs, 10 oz; 22 inches!)

First shot with the 'rents

Showing off those Big Sister skills

Isla holding "Baby Brother". Her first remark? "He's so fluffy!"

Napping at home

Princess Isla

2011-12-04T18:50:00.002-04:00

Isla is fully into the dress-up/princess/dancing stage of a girl's life. Here is a great video showcasing all three of her new loves. There is a brief wardrobe malfunction in the middle, but like a true performer, she does not skip a beat (sort of). Also note the new haircut, thanks Grandma Rayel.

Big Girl Bed

2011-12-03T11:27:00.004-04:00

As some of you may know, Nancy labored for hours and hours to make Isla a full bedding set for her new big girl bed. The collection includes a bed skirt, window valances, a duvet cover, and three, that's right, three toss pillows. These pictures are pre-haircut. The post-haircut pictures are coming.

Showing off the new bed and butterflies

We got some butterflies and flowers to tie the whole thing together

The all important valances

Thanksgiving Bounty

2011-11-25T22:28:00.005-04:00

Due to the proximity of our due date, we decided it was best to stay home for Thanksgiving this year. Grandma Rayel and Pop Pops joined us from Kalamazoo, as well as our Cleveland friends, Trina and Chris. Jake and Isla (i.e., Jake) spent the week preparing the food and making some of the nicest Thanksgiving decorations our family has ever seen. Thankfully, Baby Boy Bandstra didn't disrupt our festivities with his arrival. However, now that the holiday is over, we have all agreed he is welcome any time...

The table in all of its festive glory

Isla diving into her meal

A handmade turkey-themed napkin ring

The pilgrim vase (Jake was quite proud of this particular creation)

The turkey vase

Isla and The Belly

2011-11-19T15:57:00.002-04:00

As our due date quickly approaches (and as my belly becomes even harder to ignore), Isla has started showing increasing interest in her "baby brother". She frequently asks to kiss/hug the baby (as pictured below) and talks about him all of the time. The other day she asked (out of nowhere) if I thought baby brother would have eyebrows and a neck. She has also tried to see baby brother (with the use of a flashlight to the belly), measure baby brother (with a tape measure), and ensure that he is both well-moisturized (applying chapstick to my belly button) and well-read (reading books directly to the belly button). She is adamant that: "When baby brother gets out, I will play with him." Let's hope the love continues when he actually arrives sometime very soon!

"Smooch!"

Isla and the belly (at around 37 weeks)

The Remaining Days of Fall

2011-11-16T09:05:00.003-04:00

Cleveland experienced its first snowfall last Friday. It was no more than a dusting and didn't stick, but it reminded us that fall is winding to a close. Here are some pictures of Isla enjoying what ended up being a beautiful autumn in the Midwest.

Isla and her strawberry donut at the apple orchard and pumpkin patch

Picking apples action shot

Riding easy with baby in the wagon

At Cleveland's "Boo at the Zoo". The video is really not that great, but she was so into dancing at the "Monster Mash Tent" that I had to post it. She really knew how to move in that pumpkin costume.

Wheezy Girl

2011-11-15T11:15:00.008-04:00

Well folks, after two years of ER visits during colds (and our first admission on Friday), Isla has finally been diagnosed with asthma. No big surprise considering her father's history. Unlike when I was a child, they have made great advancements in treatments and Isla has been placed on a steroid inhaler for a while. Hopefully this will keep us out of the ER for the rest of the cold and flu season.

Sporting the Chuck E. Cheese watered down juice cup and the princess PJs

Once the meds kicked in she enjoyed a long, and apparently very sweaty, nap

Boo!

2011-11-02T15:04:00.002-03:00

Isla Fern dressed up as a pumpkin for Halloween this year. Once she realized that there were people giving out candy in the houses, she was really into it. We tried to get her to say "Trick or Treat" as she walked up to the door, but she often said "Please!" or our favorite "Can I have some candy too?"

The Pumpkin Queen

Official Halloween cookie tester

Peggy's Cove

2011-10-23T10:12:00.002-03:00

While in Nova Scotia, we took the classic south shore drive down to the fishing village of Peggy's Cove. Visiting relatives and friends might recognize the iconic lighthouse amongst the rocks. During this visit, we attempted to capture a rarely seen creature of the Martimes, the Giggling Toddler. Here are a few of the attempted shots:

Too fast...

Not quite...

Almost...

Got-cha.

It's Official!

2011-10-21T11:59:00.004-03:00

We all just got back from a great trip to Halifax, Nova Scotia where Nancy officially received her PhD. The trip lined up with a conference at the White Point Resort on the south shore so Nancy's flight was covered. However, Isla, Pop-pops, Grandma Paulette and I made the 23-hour drive. Fun times had by all.

Dr. Nancy and the rest of us

With Nancy's supervisor, Chistine,
just after Isla walked across the stage with Nancy

Isla and her friend Liam at White Point

(congrats to his mom, Erin who graduated as well)

Isla getting pointers from Liam on how to unsuccessfully sneak up on a bunny

Our Little Princess

2011-10-05T09:50:00.004-03:00

Isla had a cold over the weekend. However, when she picked out her own clothes the other day and ran around yelling "My a princess!", I figured she was feeling better. We are still working on her grammar.

It is days like this that make me glad I am colorblind.

Welcome Cousin Cohen!

2011-09-29T13:33:00.007-03:00

Auntie Anne and Uncle Paul's little bundle of joy arrived on Monday, September 19th. Like Isla, he wanted to see the world a bit earlier then his due date predicted. We got to see the new addition to the family this past weekend. While Isla was aware of the baby and, as usual, knew what to say (e.g., "He is so cute."), she was definitely more preoccupied with putting a teddy bear in/on all of Cohen's things (e.g., the carseat, the playgym) than with Cohen himself.

The proud papa

A relaxed baby Cohen

Cohen (at about 35 weeks gestation) and his to-be-named cousin (at about 26 weeks gestation)

Toddler Empathy

2011-09-23T10:18:00.002-03:00

As most of you know, my dissertation examined the development of empathy in toddlers. It has been really fun to watch Isla's empathy for others' distress and her associated prosocial behavioral responses grow over the last 18 months or so. I thought an interaction between Jake and Isla last weekend really illustrated her current progress in this realm. Those Michigan State football fans out there will likely have their own empathic responses to the following.

Jake (while watching MSU screw it up, yet again): "Uh, Michigan State" (said in a really exasperated and slightly saddened voice)

Isla: "Daddy, what's wrong?"

Jake: "Oh, it's nothing, Minners. Michigan State is just messing it up."

Isla: "Oh, it's ok daddy. Don't be sad."

At this point, Isla promptly went to retrieve her blanket and baby and placed each very gently on Jake's chest. I think he felt comforted.

A Walk in the Park

2011-09-23T10:13:00.004-03:00

I thought I'd post a couple more of the pictures Auntie Anne took of Isla last month in Kalamazoo. We felt several of them really captured her 2.5 year-old personality just right. We also managed to get one family shot that (kind of) turned out. Someday (maybe 2015?) we'll actually have a family portrait where everyone is looking at the camera.

Garlic Fest!!

2011-09-16T15:20:00.004-03:00

The Farmer's Market had their annual Garlic Fest this past weekend. We tried some garlic fries, some roasted garlic ice cream, and planted a garlic clove to come up next summer. Isla was a little scared about meeting her first clown, but after he made her a balloon animal, she quickly got over it. She is still saying "Clown not scary, he's just a guy."

The girls with a bulb

Getting her face painted

Fully equipped with balloon, butterfly, and

sucker (the one she is holding, not the one holding her)

The Last Bit of Summer

2011-09-12T22:01:00.004-03:00

As the weather is certainly starting to turn in Cleveland, I thought I would include the last bit of the summer events. Nancy is becoming very domesticated these days. She made Isla a dress over the summer and is in the process of creating Isla's bedding since her old stuff will be used by her new little brother very soon.

A lady's work is never done

The Dress

Bandstras relocate!

2011-09-11T22:30:00.005-03:00

We had a very eventful and fun summer and are officially back to the real world. The last box has been unpacked at our new apartment in Cleveland and Nancy has started her fellowship. Isla and I are busy finding new parks, checking out the museums, and getting to know our local grocery stores. Here are a few more shots from the summer.

Dress-up in Oregon with the cousins

Our little flower princess

One last trip to Scooter's where Isla and I shared a root beer float. Cheers!

I built Isla a dollhouse this summer. It is quite the sight to behold!

Grandpa Bruce

2011-08-27T12:10:00.003-03:00

During one of our first days in Oregon, Grandpa Bruce collapsed while making breakfast at the Inn. He was immediately brought to the hospital and passed away a few days later from complications following a seizure. It was a shocking and sad time, but we were grateful that we were with family to not only support one another, but also to celebrate Grandpa Bruce's life. As per his instructions, celebrations were simple and involved a bottle of one of Oregon's best pinot noirs. We feel lucky that all of us were able to spend some time with him and that we will be able to share memories and pictures with Isla when she is older.

First Haircut

2011-08-24T16:40:00.003-03:00

After almost two-and-a-half years growing the same locks, Isla had her first haircut. Her bangs were becoming detrimental to her development, as she was unable to see anything unless her barrette stayed put (which it typically did not). Luckily Aunt Leah (and later Grandma Rayel) helped clean up her 'do.

An action shot

Isla rocking her new bangs and her reward for

tolerating her first cut (a blue gummy bear)

Lovin' Liam

2011-08-24T16:27:00.004-03:00

During our recent trip to Oregon, Isla was reunited with her Halifax buddy, Liam. They spent a few wonderful summer days together, exploring the Inn and playing with one another. For a few mornings after Erin, Jay, and Liam left, Isla's first words out of bed were "Liam?". Here are a few of their cutest shots together.

Isla and Liam on the island

Playing at the firepit

Taking a break from running up and

down the sloping lawn to snap a picture together

Enjoying a bubble bath at the end of a great day

Albird Einstein

2011-08-24T16:22:00.002-03:00

As a member of the Hoffman-Rayel Family, one quickly is recruited to the rescue of all creatures big and small. During our childhoods, my siblings and I spent many a summer day (and night) caring for animals that had been separated from their caregivers. Isla had the opportunity to experience this family tradition earlier this summer when Grandma Rayel found a baby bird. We named him Albird Einstein (for his little tufts of white hair on the sides of his head).

Tweet!

On the Road Again

2011-08-02T12:15:00.004-03:00

The Bandstra Family just can't seem to get enough of the "blue car" this summer. A few days after returning from Winnipeg, we headed off to Ontario to visit several friends. We stopped in Guelph to see Matt and Meghan, in Brantford to see Shannon and Mike (with an extra special visit with Jenn, Jesse, and Nicholas!), and in Hamilton to see Jehaan and Andrea. We all really enjoyed spending some time with our Canadian friends and Isla has been quite the trooper with all of the travels.

A Canadian Welcome: Isla and her Timbit

Enjoying a waterfall at the Butterfly Exhibit in Guelph

Swimming in the pool at Matt and Meghan's (she loves this new tube garment - a gift from a fellow hotel patron in Minneapolis!)

Playing with her ol' pal, Nicholas

Isla and Fergie (Jehaan and Andrea's new puppy)

Isla loved the puppy's crate more than anything

She can literally sleep just about anywhere after all of these travels!

Enjoying some apple fritters in Paris (Ontario, that is)

Driving Miss Isla

Expensive Tastes

2011-08-02T12:11:00.004-03:00

As with most children under the age of 5, Isla was drawn to the Power Wheels aisle during a recent trip to Toys "R" Us. She selected a modest vehicle for her everyday driving needs.

Please note it's a hybrid. She cares about the environment.

Winnipeg

2011-07-21T18:32:00.008-03:00

The Bandstra Family hit the road this past week to visit our friends, Marie-Paule and Eric, and their 4 month-old daughter, Audrey. Isla tolerated the 1,100-mile drive like a champ thanks to her love for books, water towers, and naps. The temperatures were sizzling, but a good time was had by all!

Isla Fern and Audrey Apple

Isla taking the wheel

Isla at the "splash pad"

Isla and the princess pool - ta-da!

Playing at the Winnipeg Children's Museum

Hitting the slide with daddy

Blueberry Picking

2011-07-21T18:21:00.008-03:00

Jake, Isla, and I hit the blueberry fields a couple of weeks ago with our friend, Liz. While Jake, Liz, and I worked together to fill our bucket, Isla chose to consume almost every blueberry she picked. This resulted in a series of rather unpleasant diapers the following day.

A beautiful day for picking blueberries!

The Bandstra Family at the Leduc Farm

Liz picking blueberries for the communal pail and

Isla picking blueberries for her tummy

Isla and her new, blue friend

The fruits of her labor

It's a boy!

2011-07-21T18:14:00.004-03:00

While we were fairly certain (for no real reason) that Isla was male, we have actual confirmation (i.e., ultrasound images) that Baby Bandstra #2 is going to be a little boy. I started feeling movements around 16 weeks and Jake got to feel his first tap from within just last night. My belly continues to grow. In fact, Isla and I were rocking similar profiles for a while, although I seem to have surpassed her in the last couple of weeks.

The siblings: 20.5 weeks (gestation) and 29 months

Goodbye Cincy!

2011-06-30T14:34:00.005-03:00

We can hardly believe it's been a full year, but our family is leaving Cincinnati this weekend. We've had some really good times here and we'll be saying so long to lots of wonderful friends. Isla doesn't really understand the goodbyes, but has been enjoying getting together with friends for ice cream and fun! We will miss you all very much.

Isla with my fellow residents, Soumitri, Keri (also prounounced Car-ree), and Yelena

Isla with her wonderful nanny, Renee, and Kameron

Isla carefully packing up her most precious items

Chuck E. Cheese

2011-06-30T14:25:00.004-03:00

Isla was invited to her first "big kid" birthday party a couple of weeks ago. Her friend, Kameron (our nanny's son), was turning 5 and had a big ol' birthday blast at Chuck E. Cheese's. Isla had such a great time "playing" all the games, pushing all the buttons, and eating pizza and cake for dinner. She also wore a very festive outfit - a gift from Renee.

The shirt reads: "My dad makes me LOL (laugh out loud)"

Isla proudly showing off her cup.

CAKE!

"I love you Chuck E.!"

Potty Train

2011-06-30T14:21:00.004-03:00

Jake and I are hoping to get Isla toilet-trained this summer. She is showing lots of signs of readiness and we're anxious to get her out of diapers before the new baby arrives. At one point last week, I told Jake that Isla's fairly predictable deposits in her diaper would be really helpful when we decided to toilet train. Without skipping a beat, Isla looked at me and enthusiastically screamed "Choo Choo"!

All aboard the potty train!

Happy Father's Day

2011-06-21T22:01:00.003-03:00

Here are a few pictures of Isla and I canoeing last week. As it was the week of Father's Day, a little daughter/daddy bonding was appropriate. Isla and I have also come to an agreement this week that storytime at the bookstore is no longer an event that we will share together. After she pitched a fit during the middle of the last storytime, we went back to the car where I very loudly proclaimed: "We are never going to the bookstore again!!!" She now repeats that sentence every time we drive by said bookstore. Happy Father's Day and happy parenting to you all.

Gross

2011-06-10T15:29:00.003-03:00

Uncle Paul taught Isla the word "gross" when she was about 16 months-old. Using her knowledge of this word, we have taught her to not touch dirty things by labeling them as gross. This backfired when we were at the doctor's appointment. She was very happy to see a newborn come into the waiting room. After labeling and describing the child correctly (i.e., "Baby! Cute little guy..."), she proceeded to tell Jake and I that we weren't to touch the baby. I was very proud of her for knowing to be gentle with the new little one until she loudly explained why we were not supposed to touch the baby: "It's gross."

Isla and her aunties on Memorial Day.

Belly Shot

2011-06-10T15:23:00.003-03:00

For those blog readers out there interested in seeing the belly (and who are harassing us for pictures of it - you know who you are), here is the one we were able to snap yesterday. I'm feeling much bigger at this point than I was during my pregnancy with Isla. I was publically identifed as pregnant by an 8 year-old at 10 weeks and by a colleague at the hospital at 11 weeks. Guess my body just knows how to stretch this time around.

While I heard the baby's heart at 10 weeks, Jake and Isla first heard our new family member at Wednesday's appointment. Isla was very excited (mostly by the equipment in the doctor's office that we had to repeatedly move her away from). When we got to the lobby, she proudly exclaimed to the waiting patients: "I hear it! The baby's cart!". Close enough.

14 weeks.

Baby Bandstra: The Sequel

2011-05-27T09:06:00.002-03:00

This was not the clearest shot, but it best represented our excitement.

Butterflies and Hotel Rooms

2011-05-26T17:18:00.003-03:00

We have had a fun week of attending butterfly shows, and traveling to Cleveland in search of our new neighborhood. Here are a few shots from the week.

The girls

Showing off her balloon from Red Robin

Just kickin it on the hotel couch

Happy Mother's Day

2011-05-11T17:39:00.002-03:00

As you can imagine, Isla was very excited about Mother's Day this year. She and our nanny made a beautiful frame with Isla's hand print and lots of colorful jewels. Da-da made a wonderful breakfast and potted this amazing plant pictured below. Happy day to all the mother's out there.

Showing off the goods

Sporting her new summer oufit

The Flying Pig

2011-05-02T21:09:00.004-03:00

The course for Cincinnati's marathon, The Flying Pig, went right by our home this Sunday. Surprise, surprise, it rained. However, that didn't stop Isla from cheering on the runners.

"Go runners!"

Pampered Saturday

2011-05-02T21:04:00.002-03:00

In honor of the royal wedding of Prince William and Kate Middleton and with Jake at work, Isla and I decided to pamper ourselves this Saturday morning. We started by lazily watching TV while combing/brushing each other's hair (Isla gave strict instructions to "Close your eyes!" and "Lay down, Mommy!"). We then headed out for a stroll down to the bakery for pastries and tea, enjoyed a little shopping at some boutique stories, and spent some time playing at the park.

Happy Easter!

2011-05-02T20:50:00.005-03:00

For Easter this year, we spent a long weekend with family in Kalamazoo. With the near constant rain in Cincinnati, we basked in two gloriously sunny days in Michigan. Isla enjoyed all the best parts of being a child on Easter. She even enjoyed a few minutes at the beach. It really wasn't that warm, but as you can see from the pictures below, she slowly started to shed items of clothing to allow for more unencumbered water fun.

"I found one!"

Isla wearing one of my old, handmade dresses while showing off her loot

Hanging out with dad on the "Lake Village Lady"

Isla feeling no pain as she and Grandma go for a stroll in the April lake water

Seconds later: Isla strutting her stuff on the dock

Salad

2011-05-02T20:44:00.005-03:00

As many of our family and friends know, Jake's extended family is from Iowa. As members of this family, we are lucky enough to own two family cookbooks filled with a variety of recipes. Many of these recipes have become favorites of our family. Here is Isla enjoying a classic Iowa "salad".

Strawberry jell-o with fruit cocktail. Now that's a salad!

Chicago!!

2011-04-07T16:54:00.003-03:00

The three of us went to Chicago last weekend to visit some friends. Isla had a fun time going to the aquarium, the zoo and checking out all the tall buildings. Thanks Natalie and Dave!!

Chicken wings and beer (Isla got lemonade)

while watching the Final Four games

Good sea turtle

She got a little caught up in the city life

Thanks Pop Pops

2011-03-23T20:29:00.003-03:00

Pop Pops has been down in Arizona watching spring training and sent Isla her very first piece of White Sox memorabilia. She walks around saying "Go White Sox" and "From Pop Pops".

Spring Weekend

2011-03-20T22:52:00.003-03:00

This weekend brought with it the classic indications of spring - one glorious day of sunshine and warm temperatures and one day of lots of rain. In Halifax, we grew accustomed to "spring" not really starting until late April or even well into May/June. Here in Cincinnati, it looks like we've had our last snow and it's only mid-March. Yeah! Isla enjoyed a relaxed Saturday morning making pancakes with mommy. She spent Sunday afternoon participating in a race (a 5K walk) to raise money for the American Heart Association.

Step 1: Stir pancake mix

Step 2: Add blueberries

Step 3: Wash dishes (or play in the sink for 10 minutes)

Isla's first ice cream sandwich - worth the "walk" (i.e., being pushed around in a stroller while eating a handmade lunch and reading books like a princess)

Isla kissing her medal. May this not go to her head.

Happy St. Patrick's Day

2011-03-20T22:47:00.003-03:00

St. Patrick's Day was extra special this year. Our friends, James and Veronica, were discharged from the hospital with their son, Cormac, and our friends, Marie Paule and Eric, gave birth to their daughter, Audrey. Welcome to the new babies of our extended family! We can't wait to meet you both!

Isla and her leprechaun.

Crazy baby dressed for the big day

These are a few of my favorite things...

2011-03-16T20:52:00.005-03:00

Now that we're back from weeks of traveling and being away on the weekends, we've settled back into our weekend routine. This typically involves running some errands, going out for lunch or dinner, and playing outside (when the weather cooperates). Luckily, most of these things coincide with some of Isla's preferred activities these days.

Isla is big into giving everyone and everything a hug and a kiss now. Here she is hugging/knocking over Old Navy's "big girl" mannequin.

Running up the ramp near Whole Foods (she loves this so much!).

Playing at the park near our apartment.

Singing songs at the Hofbrauhaus where it is expected that you stand on the bench.

Jake looks nervous.

Little Miss Fashionista

2011-03-16T20:40:00.004-03:00

One of the first things Isla says to us in the morning these days is: "Jammies off?". After breakfast (she does have priorities), she then spends the rest of the morning and parts of the afternoon/evening dressing up in the most ridiculous outfits. Here are some of her most recent looks, fresh off the Isla Fern runway:

Wearing Mommy's work pants.

Saggy diaper and oh so proud!

Rain attire - no pants required.

Anne of Green Gables?

The baggy look - thanks Keri!

Birthday Party

2011-03-07T10:25:00.004-04:00

We were up in Kalamazoo the weekend after Isla's 2nd birthday so we had a party with all her friends. Thanks to everyone who was able to make it, we all had a lot of fun!

Cleaning up before the big party

Another hand-me-down

She loved the cake

Checking out the presents

The definition of restraint

Catch-up

2011-02-26T09:47:00.002-04:00

Hello all, our family has been super busy over the past few weeks. Nancy has had multiple fellowship interviews every weekend. This has resulted in driving all over the tri-state area and only being home for three days and then starting it all over again. We have one interview left and and starting to catch our breath. Here are some shots to catch up. More birthday pictures to come.

Go Packers!!

After a long day of traveling

Taking Gymbo for a ride while sporting the bandanna

Birthday outfit!!

Thanks Erin, Jay and Liam!!

Pajamas + New outfit + Dancing baby

Fun Times

2011-02-01T10:31:00.005-04:00

We had our friend Yelena over for dinner this weekend and she brought Isla a new book, a fun new hat and a cookie. Isla was excited about all three.

Reading the belly button book

Consumption of cookie

Sporting the new hat

Surprise!!

2011-01-23T13:49:00.005-04:00

With Jake's 30th birthday being so close to the holidays, the celebrations took a backseat in the beginning of the month. However, any disappointment was made up for on Friday night when Isla and Mommy threw Dada a surprise birthday party. Paul and Anne drove down from Kalamazoo and surprised us at dinner. Arriving at our apartment thinking of fun things for the four of us to do, Jake was again surprised that Brad and Cassie had driven from Indy and our Cincinnati friends Yelena, Keri. and Soumitri were also on hand. Jake was officially surprised and we had a fantastic evening. Thanks to everyone!!!

Nancy even made Grandma Susan's famous Oatmeal Cake

Make a wish!!

The cake was Isla tested and approved

Eat Pray Vomit

2011-01-19T16:25:00.004-04:00

Nancy and I rented "Eat, Pray, Love" on Friday, but, for us, it was more like Eat-Pray-Vomit. During that movie, we were forced to give Isla two baths, changed her crib sheets twice, and did about three loads of laundry. The following day we enjoyed countless, indescribable diaper changes and the rental of a carpet and upholstery cleaner from Home Depot. It was only a matter of time for the two of us, and we are just now climbing out of the fog.

Some more holiday shots

2011-01-05T10:56:00.003-04:00

The line for Santa was too long,

so we settled for Frosty.

A very excited Isla on Christmas morning.

Checking out her stocking.

On the Merry-Go-Round at the zoo.

Merry Christmas!!

2011-01-03T20:12:00.003-04:00

We spent Christmas in Kalamazoo with Grandma and Pop-Pops. Isla had a blast in the snow, and she loved all her presents. Here are some selected photos.

"A little help please"

Grandma and Pop-Pops

Ready for the snow in the Hoffman/Rayel

hand-me-down, homemade snowsuit.

Her first snowball (formed by Mommy)

Christmas Tree Shopping

2010-12-13T12:07:00.004-04:00

The Bandstra Family went to pick out a Christmas tree last week. We had a fresh dusting of snow to put us all in the holiday spirit. We found the most handsome tree on the lot and had fun decorating that evening.

Isla in her new hat and mittens.

"Oh, this one daddy!"

Having fun in the trees.

Met some nice horses along the way.

The Windy City

2010-12-05T11:05:00.002-04:00

Here are a few shots from our trip to Dave and Buster's in Chicago with our friends Tom and Sabina. Isla especially had fun playing all the games and was fascinated by all the lights.

She has a need, a need for speed.

Trying her hand at good ol' skeeball.

Isla helping Tom and I rock out.

Happy Thanksgiving

2010-11-29T19:54:00.003-04:00

We spent the Thanksgiving weekend with Grandma and Pop-pops in Kalamazoo. Isla had a great time eating all the yummy Thanksgiving standards. She even seemed to enjoy the leftovers three days later. Some holiday moments...

Isla is at the end, hoping this is all for her.

"Keep these turkey legs coming!"

She is a very focused pie eater.

Hofbrauhaus

2010-11-16T16:15:00.004-04:00

We had our friend Natalie here this weekend from Chicago. We walked over the people bridge to Newport, Kentucky and went to the Hofbrauhaus. It was a nice day and we all sat out on the patio for some German beer, sausages, and sauerkraut. Isla enjoyed all the people and even got to see a polka band!!

Over the river for beer and pretzels.

"I can't believe I ordered the big one"

Cheers!!

Tomato Soup

2010-11-10T09:31:00.002-04:00

Nancy and I went back and forth about how to properly narrate the obligatory "tomato soup pictures." We both had some funny ideas, but in the end I decided to let the pictures speak for themselves. Enjoy, and try not to laugh too hard at the last picture, she just loves soup so much.

Weird Baby

2010-11-08T10:33:00.003-04:00

After 20 months to think it over, we have decided that our baby is sort of weird. Here she is wearing an eclectic outfit, hat and attempting to put two socks on the same foot. If anyone else out there feels like they too have a weird baby, rest assured that you are not alone.

Isla vs. Autumn

2010-11-05T14:07:00.004-03:00

In this corner, we have a season that brings cold weather, wind, rain and leaves. In the other corner, we have a baby that loves putting on a hat, coat, and shoes. With her extra fat to shield her from the cold and her ability to fall into piles of leaves... Isla wins.

Trick-or-Treat

2010-11-03T13:58:00.004-03:00

Isla enjoyed her Halloween weekend by dressing up as a fairy princess, celebrating her friend Nolan's First Birthday, and trick-or-treating for the first time as a walker. Mommy and Daddy shared a cold with each other.

"Let's go get some candy."

"One more hand-full please."

The entire costume, equipped with

Daddy-made wand and fairy dunce hat.

HallZOOween

2010-10-28T13:20:00.004-03:00

The Cincinnati Zoo was all done up for Halloween this month. We brought Isla to check out the haunted train ride, the scary-go-round and of course, the candy!!

The girls gearing up for the train ride.

Isla kept a pretty tight grip on that hand rail.

Candy watches are delicious.

Oops!

2010-10-19T16:50:00.004-03:00

Isla had her first big fall this week and scratched her head. 20 months with no big fall is a good record, even if she spent most of it not walking. Here are a few shots of the injury.

Eating carmel corn in the leaves

"Help Me"

A Goat Coat in a Pumpkin Patch

2010-10-11T19:47:00.003-03:00

We hit up a local pumpkin patch this weekend for some apple cider, hayrides, and of course, pumpkins. Isla wore her goat coat that her Aunt Leah so lovingly made.

The goat coat is pumpkin patch approved!

Picking pumpkins

That's one spooky baby.

Doing lots of walking.

Go Spartans!!

2010-10-06T13:53:00.003-03:00

The three of us headed up to Kalamazoo this past weekend. Isla stayed with Grandma and Pop-Pops on Saturday while Nancy and I went to a MSU football game. The Spartans beat the Badgers and we had a great time catching up with old friends. We had the rest of the weekend to relax in Kalamazoo.

Go State!!

Isla having her first Smore.

Getting those bare feet
on the dock one last time this year.

Building sand castles with Grandma.

Goofy Baby

2010-09-29T09:50:00.004-03:00

Our friend Lindsey came to Cincinnati this weekend for a nice visit. She is an Optometrist and brought her tools along to check Isla's vision for us. Isla passed the vision test with flying colors and look ridiculous in the process.

She needed her plastic hamburger

to get her through the ordeal.

Trying on Mommy's sweatshirt, and loving it!

On the move.

My Baby Can Walk!!

2010-09-27T09:27:00.004-03:00

Welcome to the My Baby Can Walk program. Your teacher will be Miss Isla Fern. With her guidance and moral support, your baby could be walking by 19 months! That's right people - walking at 19 months! Just look at the results!

Order now!!

Progress?

2010-09-24T11:15:00.003-03:00

Little Isla took her first steps this week. We have been trying to capture the event on camera since then, but it has proved to be most difficult. We do however have this dynamic video to share. Do not adjust your computer, even if you don't see much movement.

Coney Island!!!

2010-09-15T12:21:00.003-03:00

Nancy's work had a family day at Coney Island (Ohio) last weekend. We were a little apprehensive about putting Isla on any of the rides, but this one was tame enough. Don't blink, you might miss her. Enjoy!!

It's Standing Time!!

2010-09-14T10:03:00.004-03:00

As most of you know, our little girl is a bit behind in her gross motor skills development. We took her to physical therapy again to help her with her walking skills. They said she has all the strength to walk, she just needs the confidence and motivation.

Using the piano bench for support.

Isla at the Children's Museum. She is taking a dog and a turtle for a walk.

Piano Baby

2010-09-11T13:59:00.002-03:00

BABY SEEKING WORK AS ENTERTAINER: Will play renditions of many of your favorites (e.g., 'Hitting Random Keys' and 'Key Smasher'). Long periods of silence also possible. Giggling and squealing guaranteed throughout performance. Available for parties... (anytime before 7:00 pm).

At Hyde Park Square during one of our Friday ice cream trips

Tips welcomed

The Great American Ball Park

2010-09-10T17:31:00.006-03:00

Lat week we went to a Reds' game with Pop-Pops. Isla loved all the fireworks and she was very happy the Reds won. We are not sure she even realized that the little things running around and swinging bats were even people, but she still enjoyed herself.

Almost game time

"I will have one giant popcorn, one tub of soda,
two hot dogs and..."

It was hot. She got very sleepy.

It's Been a While...

2010-09-01T15:20:00.003-03:00

Sorry to all those blog followers out there. The blog has been neglected. Isla and I went out to the West coast to see the family. Nancy missed us both very much, but enjoyed some "Nancy-time". Now that we are back, we have pictures to share.

Enjoying the soft rose petals with Grandma

All the girls
(Isla has no shirt because she is a messy eater)

Looking for treasures

Summer Fun

2010-08-15T10:53:00.007-03:00

The three of us have had fun exploring our new city this summer. With trips to the zoo and the museums, picnics in the park, and bike riding, we are staying very busy.

The girls at the Zoo

Weekend bike riding

Thanks Uncle Paul and Aunt Anne for my new bike!

Duck helmet (how fitting)

Beating the heat at the pool

Picnic with Saiya, the friendly lab

The Zoo!!

2010-08-13T22:34:00.004-03:00

We took Isla to the zoo this weekend. She had a fantastic time meeting all the animals and checking out the rides.

Polar bear hat

"Dad, why am I on this Zebra?"

"Oh, it moves, yippee!"

Goats!!

Isla in Kalamazoo

2010-08-05T22:32:00.005-03:00

We had a great time at the wedding in Ontario and Isla had fun playing with Grandma and Pop-pops. We had a day in Kalamazoo before our drive back down to Cincinnati so we picked vegetables from the Browns' garden while they were away.

Picking cherry tomatoes

Crushing cherry tomatoes

Hanging out with Mom in the garden

We're off!!

2010-07-30T13:23:00.003-03:00

Isla's bags are packed and she is off to Kalamazoo to spend the weekend with Grandma and Pop-pops while Mommy and Da-Da drive to Ontario for a wedding.

After a fill up and a

quick tire check, she is off!!

More from the weekend-o-fun

2010-07-28T14:46:00.003-03:00

Last weekend we also went to the Farmer market and went to a BBQ mixer with Jake's new "Cincinnati Dads" friends.

Chillin' with Liz at the market

Isla played in a sprinkler for most of the evening,
and got sprayed down with the hose at the end of the night

She pretty much thought this slide
was the best thing ever

Cincinnati Children's Museum!

2010-07-27T19:31:00.007-03:00

We hosted our friend, Liz Brown from the Big Apple, this last weekend. We all went to the children's museum which is in an old train station. Good times were had by everyone and it was a nice break from the 97-degree heat.

The old train station terminal was full of American pride

Isla's maternal insticts kicked in and
she fell in love with this scary naked baby

Already wanting to drive

There was a ball room - enough said

Grocery Store Driving

2010-07-26T15:01:00.003-03:00

Isla has discovered that there is an alternative to riding in the basket of the shopping cart. It is doubtful that she will ever go back.

Crusin' the aisles

Taking it for a spin in the parking lot

The racing model requires a difficult-to-master
two-handed steering technique

World Cup Weekend

2010-07-14T21:03:00.005-03:00

This weekend we hosted our friends Jen and Nick currently from Abu Dhabi. We had fun watching the World Cup, tossing back a few beers, and relaxing. Isla enjoyed the games when she was awake to watch them. Best of luck to Jen and Nick as they travel through Michigan and then onto Europe!

She was quite upset after the Dutch lost.

Super Baby!!

O-R-E-O

I've got a gal in Kalamazoo...

2010-07-06T23:15:00.002-03:00

Since Nancy had Monday off, we all took a trip up to Kalamazoo for the Fourth of July. The trip was filled with morning, afternoon and evening swims in the lake with Grandma Paulette, a good bit of relaxing and plenty of fireworks.

With Mickey, Goofy and Isla as firefighters,

this is going to be one safe holiday weekend.

A few more years of growing needed.

Chillin' in the morning with Da-Da.

Building "sandcastles"

Isla taking a spill after not paying attention to the sand

crawling demonstration from Grandma.

She speaks...

2010-07-02T21:17:00.004-03:00

Isla has taken to pointing to pictures of babies, mostly of herself, and saying, "Bebee" in a soft, breathy voice. It is very funny to listen to and as you can see from the second picture, she really gets a kick out of it.

"Who is the gorgeous baby in this photo album?"

"Oh, it's me, yippee!"

One word: guacamole.

Exploring Cincinnati

2010-07-01T21:04:00.003-03:00

Isla, Nancy and I found a new park down the road that had ducks, swings and lots of kids to watch run around. Between those three things and a PB and J sandwich, Isla was happy as could be.

Consumption of said sandwich

Testing out the swings in Cincinnati, approved!!

WKRP in Cincinnati!!

2010-06-26T20:16:00.004-03:00

We have finally arrived in Cincinnati and are almost done unpacking all of the boxes. Jake is almost done assembling all of the IKEA furniture and Nancy is almost done arranging and rearranging the living room. If anyone who reads this is in the Cincinnati area drop us an e-mail and we can meet up. Thanks to all of our Halifax friends for the past few years and a special thanks to everyone who helped us move. We hope to see you all soon!

Isla vs. the new bookshelf

Eventually the bookshelf gave up and Isla won

Happy girl in her new home